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BAD BREATH

I work as a receptionist at an animal hospital. One of my jobs there is to answer the phone. The only way of interaction with the person on the phone is by hearing what and how I talk to them. Even when I don’t feel good. Even when I am grumpy. Even when I would rather be doing anything else other than answering the phone, I still have to be careful what and how I talk to a potential or current customer. This is the first impression that a prospective client will get about our hospital. If I do not talk to them cheerfully and respectively, I could turn someone away from making an appointment. I called another hospital to get some information on a new client that was coming to us. The lady on the phone was rude. After I got off the phone with her, I turned to the other receptionist and told her that I knew how it felt to talk to someone who did not care how she sounded to others. I told her I was going to try to be better about my attitude while talking to someone on the phone, even though they are being the rude one.

Have you ever said something and even as you were saying it, you wished you could pull a string and get those words back in your mouth? I have had so many times in my life that I wish I could do that. Times that my mouth and my brain were not working together. Times that even after an apology, the person pulls their life away from you. The words we say can be so hurtful to others. Once those words get out of our mouth, you can never take them back. That “bad breath” lingers on.

For us to be a light to this world, we have to be careful of what and how we say things to others. We can influence someone to want to know more about God by our “light” or we can be the person who influences them to not want to know more about God, because of the words we say, “our bad breath.” Part of how we live our lives for the Lord, is by what comes out of our mouths. What comes out of our mouths tells others what our heart is like. Matthew 12:33-37 says “out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks.”  The Bibleis just full of passages about our tongue. So that shows me that the tongue, even though it is a small part; it is a very important part of who we are and what we are portraying to others. When you finish reading my blog today, turn your Bibles to James 3 and read that chapter. Some of the words that are used here to describe the tongue are: “a fire”- “set on fire by hell”- “an unruly evil”- “full of deadly poison”- “out of the same mouth proceed blessing or cursing.” How can a person curse one minute and then the next minute try to make others think that they are trying to live for the Lord? Cursing, using the Lord’s name in vain, can only produce negative results. Have you ever listened to a couple of people talking to each other and hear a lot of cursing? It seems like they are “fueled” by each other using the Lord’s name in vain. Somehow, they feel there is power in those curse words. But that type of power is not from the Lord. I started watching a movie the other night and every other word was a curse word. Without those words, the movie might have been a good story. Instead of watching the entire thing, I changed to a different channel. If a person watches and hears cursing all the time, cursing becomes a part of their vocabulary and a part of their heart as well. It becomes easy for a word to “slip out” once and awhile. The other day, at the store, I heard a little boy, about 3 years old, saying some curse words. Where did he learn those words from? Think about! Once cursing becomes part of your life, it spreads like a wild fire to your heart. Cursing is negative. It does not help anyone or any situation.

Gossip is a part of the tongue that is so dangerous! Proverbs 16:28 says “A whisperer separates the best of friends.” Proverbs 18:8 says “the words of a talebearer are like tasty trifles, and they go down into the inmost body.” Proverbs 11:13 says “A talebearer reveals secrets, but he who is a faithful spirit conceals a matter.” And one of my favorites, Ecclesiastes 10:20 says “Do not curse the king, even in your thought; do not curse the rich in your bedroom. For a bird of the air may carry your voice, and a bird in flight may tell the matter.” My memory is not as good as it used to be. If I were to tell someone else, what I might have heard someone say, I might exaggerate or tell that gossip wrong. There was a time that someone started some gossip that was not true about me. I mentioned in another post that when my husband died, his paycheck was immediately taken out of our bank account. The church, and so many friends, helped me during that time to pay my expenses as well as the flowers for the funeral, etc. A friend came to me and said someone had started a rumor that I was giving some of that money to my daughter and her husband. None of that was true and I asked my friend to tell that person to “un-tell” that gossip because it was definitely untrue! How could someone tell such an untruth to others? That hurt my heart that someone would think that of me and in the middle of such a difficult time in my life. In the middle of shock and grief of my husband dying! Words hurt! When gossip is spoken by someone, they feel important that they know a secret. Read Romans 1:28-32. In these verses, are listed evil things. Whisperers and backbiters are listed right along with “haters of God”- “murderers”- “deceitful.” Verse 32 tells us “that those who practice such things are deserving of death.” So, you mean, that if I hear some “juicy” gossip and I tell others, that it could cause my eternal death? Yes!

Our words, can be the reason we receive eternal death or eternal life! Jesus said in Matthew 12:36, “…every idle word that men may speak, they will give account of it in the day of judgment.”

On the other hand, words can be used to the glory of God. Even just listening and not saying anything, is for God’s glory. Our words can give comfort, peace, strength, joy, knowledge, laughter and so many other amazing results. Our words can lead someone to Jesus.

The “breath” that comes out of our mouths can be pure or it can cause someone to turn away from us because it is so bad.

So, the next time you open your mouth, what is going to come out? Will the words be a breath of fresh air or will they be bad breath? If it is bad breath, you might cause someone to go elsewhere in search of answers that will affect their souls!

Whew, think I will go use some mouthwash, from God’s word, after writing this. How about you?

Till next time!                                             Keela

TREASURES

My grandfather yelled, “Get to the cellar!” At 10 years old, I remember saying “Papa Judge, why?” He said look out the window. What I saw is something I will never forget! It was a “perfect” tornado coming across the field. You know the kind that was in the Wizard of Oz. It looked like a dark grey top; swirling, headed our direction. We all ran, with the wind threatening to pick us up off our feet. I remember how fast my heart was racing and how scared I was! Luckily the tornado did not destroy my grandparents’ home and country store in Victory, Oklahoma. (Actually, I am sitting at my grandparents roll top desk that was used in the store, writing this blog post.) There was another time, my brother and I went by bus to visit them and the first thing we did was go to the cellar with our suitcases in tow!

We have had a series of tornadoes in the last couple of weeks, here in Missouri.  that have changed many people’s lives; destroying their homes and businesses. In my town, the sirens have gone off telling us to take shelter. I do not have a basement, so I have to get into the bathtub for safety.

Tornadoes are a part of people’s lives, especially for those who live in Oklahoma or the Midwest, in the spring time. They have to have a plan in their minds before the sirens are blowing telling them to take cover. Is there a certain “thing” that we have in mind to grab on our way to the cellar (or the bathtub?) Of course, kids and pets are on the top of our list, but there are just some things we have that just cannot be replaced! I think of the many albums of pictures that I have of long ago departed loved ones. I think of all the treasures that I have that were my grandmothers and mothers. My mother loved Norman Rockwell. I have her collection now in a lit glass cabinet. Also, in that cabinet are Precious Moments figurines that my grandmother cherished. For several years, I gave my mother, Home Interior Victorian ladies. They are housed in that same cabinet. I also have a very special set of English cottages that my parents had purchased when my dad was stationed in England, in the Air Force. I was born there, so they are very precious to me. None of these things can be replaced! But in reality, it is all just stuff! Collections that we have to dust and position on the shelves in just the right way.  Treasures that have no value to anyone else but ourselves.

The Bible talks about treasures. Matthew 6:19-21 reads “Do not lay up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy and where thieves break in and steal; but lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust destroys and where thieves do not break in and steal. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.”  What is this passage talking about? How do we get treasures in our hearts? This passage is not telling us that we are not to have “stuff” that we cherish, but rather that we are not to make that our focus for our lives. Tornadoes can demolish the things we value on this earth, but no one can cause us to lose our faith that is within our hearts; if we treasure our faith, hope and continue to love others as God loves us.

In 1999, my only aunt and uncle were in the middle of the Moore, Oklahoma tornado. Thank the good Lord, that they had a cellar built into the ground of their home, where they survived with several of their neighbors. When my uncle pushed open the door, what he saw was devastation all around him. Their home had been completely destroyed! They did not even have a toothbrush! The only thing standing was the wall around the bathtub and the tub itself, (guess it might have been a good place to go after all!) and a wall where a clock still hung, with the correct time, and on that same wall, a chest of drawers that had not been touched. My aunt was so terrified that it took her a while to climb out of that cellar. Several months later I had a chance to sit down and talk to her about it. I asked her if she had ever wondered why this had happened to her? She answered “why not me?” Just because she was living her life the best way she could for the Lord, did not mean that devastating things will not happen to us. All that stuff that had “blown” away was just that-stuff! God helped to spare them from being killed. She still had her faith and hope in God and in an eternal home one day. Some interesting things happened in the midst of this storm, while clean-up was happening. My uncle had a very special Bible that he had for years and that he could not find. It ended up, that several weeks later, he got a call from a farmer who had found that Bible in the middle of his cow pasture, miles away. When I visited them, last summer, he showed me that Bible. It is duck taped on the outside, underlined and circled passages on the inside. That was not a treasure to anyone else, but him. He was so blessed to have it back. Also, in their attic in a big trunk, there were many quilts that my grandmother had lovingly stitched by hand. Very special but lost forever! A couple of years ago, my second cousin-his granddaughter, just happened to go into a thrift store. There in a bundle, with ribbon tied around them, were some quilt squares. She picked them up and low and behold, there was my grandmothers name, Inez, on one of them!!! It was pieces of one of those quilts that had blown away so many years before! (Sometimes when women got together and worked together on a quilt, each woman would stitch their name somewhere on one of the squares.) My uncle thought he would never see either one of those treasures again. But thanks to some caring people, he was able to get them back in his possession.

Think about how important this stuff is when we look at the big picture. They are important to us in the here and now. But we are here only for a few short years. Then, our kids or grandkids have to go through all this stuff and either get rid of it or keep it. Many years from now, when family are going through my uncles’ things and come across that worn out, duck taped Bible, they are not going to know the importance of it to him. More than likely, it will get thrown away. Treasures from a life time ago, that no one wants to care for, in the present generation.

My daughter tells a story about when they lived in an apartment, that she looked out the window and an older woman’s things were laying out for the trash truck to come and pick up. She had evidently passed away. She had no relatives or friends to take care of all her stuff. The apartment manager had just piled all of her treasures out by the road to be taken to the trash dump. She saw people walking on pictures and not caring about any of the belongings that had been important to her. Feeling sad for the lady, my daughter went down to the pile of things and retrieved an old black and white picture of a boy about 6-8 years old. Had that been her husband or her father as a young man? Nothing written on the back, so no way of knowing, but she took it back home with her and saved it from going to the dump as a piece of garbage, instead of a treasure to that older lady.

At the end of time, every earthly treasure we own will be destroyed. We cannot take these earthly things with us when we die. We will all stand before God on the judgement day. I will not have my pictures or my mother’s Norman Rockwell collection, clutched to my chest. I will stand alone before God who does not see these earthly treasures but rather sees the things that have been treasured in our hearts and shown through our actions on this earth.

Is it wrong to collect these things? Is it wrong to feel pain and sadness when these treasures are taken away from us by a devastating tornado or some other reason? No, but it is wrong if that is our focus of our lives. That is all we are working for on this earth-to have stuff! Our main focus every day is to make money to acquire more “things.” Our treasures should be from our hearts through acts of kindness-being there for people who go through devastating storms-be there for a friend who is facing cancer-being a good example to our children & grandchildren-be joyful in the midst of pain because we know that we have the hope of eternal life with God where all of these earthly treasures mean nothing. Praising God and being obedient servants of His; those are the treasures of the heart!

So next time you are dusting off those treasures, evaluate yourself to see if you are exhibiting treasures of the heart for others to see, or are you just collecting stuff and dust! Treasures! There is nothing we can do about losing our earthly treasures to a tornado, but there is something we can do today-right now-to keep the treasures of our hearts “dusted off” and on display for others to see through us, how to live for our God and Father!

Are you storing up earthly treasures or treasures of the heart?

(The picture at the first of this blog is the lit cabinet with the treasures I have talked about in this blog. And the most important of my treasures-my little great-grandbaby, Delaney Mae! For some reason, when I am trying to post, the picture of Delaney is sideways. So, excuse me if it shows up that way after I post, good grief!)

Till next time!                                Keela

WEEDS

Tears ran down my face, like the hard rain against a window pane. I was standing in front of my husband’s grave. It is about two hours south of where I live now. I do not visit but a couple of times a year. Of course, I feel sad when I visit. But this cry was not a cry of sadness because my husband has been gone for ten years this October; but rather a cry, from the gut, deep inside. Why was I crying? Weeds had grown in between the graves to such an extent that it looked like a weed patch where no one cared. The rest of the little graveyard looked really nice. It had been mowed and tended to, but they do not keep up the area that my husband’s family are buried, in between the graves.

About two months after my husband and I got married, his family bought a family plot. The plot is in a cemetery out of town on a gravel road. At the time, I was just barely eighteen years old, a newlywed, and here we were buying a place to be buried in. Why did we need to be thinking about this at such a precious age? But, as a good newlywed does, I agreed to getting us two spaces. (Later, when my husband passed away, I was very thankful we had done that so many years earlier. That was one less thing that I had to think about in the middle of my grief.)

Years ago, when my husband’s parents passed away and were buried, my husband’s sister, planted all kinds of flowers, plants and even a little tree in the middle of the grave plot. The people who care for the graveyard were told, by her, to leave in between the graves alone because she would care for it. She and her husband tended to it while they were alive. They would come to the sight and throw a blanket down over her parent’s graves and have a picnic. She visited a lot tending to her “little garden.” I personally, thought it was way too much, but she took care of it, so never said anything about it to her.

 But now, because there is no one who tends to the tree, roses, flowers and now huge weeds, it looked like an uncared-for mess! My son, who has to travel to Arkansas for work from time to time, goes by and tries to care for it a bit and makes sure my husband and my headstone are in good shape, but he has not been traveling as much, and it has gotten overgrown.

I know that having weeds overgrowing the area, is not the most important thing but it still hit me hard. Memorial Day is coming and I felt so sad that people would look at the site and think there was no one who cared for the people who are buried there. We put a Bible verse on my husband and my tombstone, but you could not even see it because of the growth. You cannot see the picture of he and I on our 25^th wedding anniversary that we had included on the stone.

Doesn’t it seem that weeds around our house can grow so quickly? We have had so much rain in the last few days. I am sure there are a lot of weeds around my house, that I will need to tend to after the rain stops. They “pop” up so quickly, even before we realize it.

By now, you are probably wondering where I am going with this blog post. Bear with me. Ever since getting back from that visit to the graveyard, I have been thinking about the “weeds” we have in our lives. The sins in our lives that can slowly grow if we do not “pull them out of our hearts” before they get out of hand. Before they become such a part of our everyday lives that before we know it, those “weeds” overtake our hearts and minds. “Weeds” that intertwine with other “weeds” until there is just a jumbled-up mess, we have gotten ourselves into.

There are some powerful verses in the Old Testament that talk about some “weeds” that can overtake our lives. These verses tell us six things that the Lord hates and lists one that is an abomination to the Lord. Proverbs 6:16-19 reads, “These six things the Lord hates. Yes, seven are an abomination to Him. A proud look. A lying tongue. Hands that shed innocent blood. A heart that devises wicked plans. Feet that are swift in running to evil. A false witness who speaks lies. And one who sows discord among brethren.”  Let’s look at each one of these. Proud look-a person who thinks they can do everything themselves without God’s help. Lying tongue-a person who does not speak the truth. Sheds innocent blood-a murderer. Heart who devises wicked plans-every thought is evil and they plan how to use these thoughts for evil. Feet that hurry to do evil-a person who does not think before doing evil, has no conscience. False witness who lies-a person who gossips and lies about what they have heard. Then the last one, is an abomination or the feelings of disgust or repulsion, is a person who sows discord between people of like faith. I certainly do not want to be convicted of doing anything the Lord hates, let alone anything that is an abomination to Him! There are so many people who do not believe that God can get angry with us. These “weeds” and so many others, can overtake our thinking and cause us to do things that are against all that God wants for our lives. 1 John 4:8 tells us that “He who does not love does not know God, for God is love.” God loves even a person who might do one or all of the above sins. He is always ready with arms spread out wide for them to turn from their evil ways. God sent His only Son to spread out His arms on a cross for us, to save us from all the “weeds” that are around us everyday and give us hope of an eternal home with him when we die.

Weeds can overtake an unkept area very quickly. “Weeds” in our lives can sneak up on us and before we know it, we have been overtaken by evil thoughts and can become guilty of a sin that the Bible tells us is something that God hates. God does not hate the person, but the acts or lives that a person can be overtaken in before they know it. We cannot let the devil sneak up on us and lead us down a path away from God.

My sons and grandsons are going to the cemetery and pull up those nasty weeds and clean it up so that mess of jumbled weeds does not overtake the area again. Yank out that tree so that those roots don’t overtake the area or do damage to the stones.

Likewise, when we have “weeds” in our lives that have taken root in our hearts and grows, we need to stop that growth and “yank” them out of our hearts before the sin buries the person God has meant for us to be.

So, get those weeds cleaned up that are overtaking your garden. Get those “weeds” of our hearts cleaned up and out. God has a much better plan for you!

Till next time!                                                 Keela

STANDING IN THE GAP

Have you ever had someone stand in the gap for you? Have you ever had someone step up to help you through a trial, a physical illness by bringing your family food, or sent you a card that you got on a particularly hard day and it brings you some joy in the midst of pain? I have many times. What am I talking about? I am talking about someone taking action to physically or spiritually stand in the gap of pain, in the gap of sin, in the gap of all the things the world wants to try to throw our way.

Let me tell you a few times that family and friends have stood in the gap for me and then we will think about some people in the Bible who stood in the gap for others.

My husband struggled with congestive heart failure for several years before his death. He started having to go into the hospital about every two weeks for them to “drain” this fluid that caused him to have problems breathing. His heart doctor felt like that if they replace his aortic value, it would help the fluid to stop flowing into his chest cavity. When he went in for the surgery, I never even let the thought cross my mind that he might not come out of the surgery alive. The day of the surgery, there were about twenty people with us the entire day. People brought food. Several throughout the day, took care of my little grandson, pushing him in his stroller down the hallways or sitting in the floor and playing with him. After about twelve hours the doctors called me back and said the surgery was a success, the valve was working properly but the fluid that had caused him so much aggravation, kept flowing within his chest, but they would continue to try to get it to stop. I remember going back to the family and friends and sitting down. I felt like I was going to vomit. One friend went and got me a cold wet towel. Another rubbed my back. Another held my hand. I asked if we could all pray holding hands. They stood in the gap of disbelief, physical pain and prayed for us. Finally, the doctors called us back and said his body just could not stand any more and he had passed away. I remember just sitting, staring at the wall. People were cleaning up our area and coming to me with hugs. I felt someone behind me embracing me in a strong warm hug. It felt like when you have a shawl and you are really cold and you wrap it tightly around your shoulders. I turned around to see who it was, but there was no one there. I feel God was letting me know I was going to be ok and He would be right there with me every step of the way. God steps into the gap of our hearts and calms those fears of the future and pain of loss.

Over the next week, friends and family were always with me, standing in the gap for me. My husbands work had just direct deposited his paycheck on Friday into our account. His surgery was on Monday. When they found out that he had passed away, they took that paycheck out of our account until my husband’s life insurance had come through. That meant, I did not have any money at all. There was so much to do and pay for. My oldest son stood in the gap. He was so amazing trying to take care of all the details. Friends came from everywhere to stand in the gap for me. I remember just sitting on the couch in disbelief and grief and a friend came in and sat at the kitchen table where my son was, and opened her checkbook and asked him what bills needed to be paid. A friend came in and started dusting, cleaning the bathrooms, vacuuming, doing the laundry. Another made calls for me, like to the company that had my husband’s oxygen equipment. Three women walked in the door and handed me a big wad of money. They said it was for the flowers for the funeral. I did not even have money for that. Food just kept coming in the door. We had to take some of it to a friend to put in her freezer. Another friend made the overhead for us that was shown at the funeral. A dear friend flew in to conduct the funeral. Friends made the trip a couple of hours to where my husband was to be buried, to be there for us. So many precious friends and church family stood in the gap for me. The gap of reality of immediate physical needs and emotional support. There are so many times I could tell you about, during the ten years before he passed away, that people stood in the gap, helping me to take one step in front of the other. That will be for another time. Thank you, God, for You and others standing in the gap for me and my family!

Let’s look at an example of someone from the Bible who stood in the gap for others. There is an amazing story of Nehemiah that I want us to look at. I recently went to a ladies retreat where I was their key note speaker and we talked about standing in the gap for each other as Christian sisters. One of the ladies in charge, gave me an article written by Christian Ditchfield that gives a really good summary of how the Israelites stood in the gap for each other in the book of Nehenuiah. I will quote part of that article here. “Standing in the gap is an expression that comes from a story in the book of Nehemiah. For years God’s people had been living in captivity and exile in Babylon, but at last the day came when they were allowed to return to their homeland. They faced enormous obstacles as they tried to re-establish their capital city, Jerusalem. The community was vulnerable to attack because their defenses were down, the city walls lay in ruins. Their enemies used fear and intimidation to try to discourage the people and keep them from rebuilding the walls. And for a while, the strategy worked. Discouragement and despair prevented them from rising up to once again be the people God meant for them to be. Then Nehemiah arrived on the scene. He told God’s people to keep their eyes on Him and ignore all the threats and accusations made by their enemies. He reminded the people of the value and significance of what they were fighting for. And he had them take turns literally standing in the gap-positioning themselves in the broken-down places, the holes in the wall, with their weapons drawn-while those beside them worked to repair and rebuild the protective barriers. The Bible tells us we all have an enemy-Satan-who tries to use fear, hopelessness, discouragement, and despair to subdue vulnerable believers today. But we can fend him off using the same strategy that worked for Nehemiah.” When Nehemiah’s brothers told him about the walls of Jerusalem being in ruins, he wept and prayed to God. Then, he went and encouraged the Israelites to refocus back on God and the fact that He would help them. Then the Israelites literally-physically stood in the gap for each other. This shows me that we first need to see the reality of the physical situation. We must remember to pray to God first, like Nehemiah did, before we try to do things ourselves. There are so many times in my life that I have tried to take care of a situation on my own, without praying to God first. When I did this, guess what I had to do anyway; I ended up having to pray to God to help me know what to do and usually get me out of the mess I had just made trying to fix it myself!

There are so many examples from the Bible of those who stood in the gap for others; Jonathan standing in the gap for his dear friend David: in Ezekiel God pleading for someone to stand in the gap for Him to stand up to sin: Moses stood in the gap many times for the Israelites. One more quick example of someone standing in the gap for us-for all generations in the future. The most important example; Jesus. At the beginning of time, Adam & Eve created a gap between good and evil. A gap between God and all humanity! Romans 5:6-8 tells us “For when we were still without strength, in due time Christ died for the ungodly. For scarcely for a righteous man will one die; yet for perhaps for a good man someone would even dare to die. But God demonstrates His own love towards us, in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.”  Christ died on the cross to stand in the gap between sin and our faithfulness. Christ’s blood poured from His body and filled all the gaps of sin that man created for himself. God gave His only Son to give the ultimate gift of the cross, to stand in the gap for us. Thank you, God!

So, how can we stand in the gap for each other. I shared a few times, when so many stood in the gap for me. But think about how YOU can stand in the gap for another. There are so many opportunities we come across every day. Maybe you are in the grocery line and an older person is having trouble figuring out how to swipe their card, (I am one of those older people!) Ask them if you can help them or help them get their groceries in their car. Maybe someone cuts you off while driving home from work-pray for them that they can slow down and have a better day. You know someone who is having a financial battle. Send them a gift card for gas for their car or to the grocery store. There are so many examples I could give here. We must learn how to stand in the gap for another, either physically or emotionally. If you do not feel you can physically stand in the gap for another, prayer is a powerful tool to stand in the gap in the middle of a person’s pain, a person’s physical need, a person’s cry for help.

Proverbs 18:24 says “A man who has friends must himself be friendly…”  We have to let others know that we are approachable. We have to get out there and shake hands before or after church. Go to someone you don’t know after church and talk to them. In order for us to have friends, we must put ourselves out there-get out of our comfort zone-and share ourselves with others. How else can we be a light to the world and share our faith? How else can we help stand in the gap for someone unless we have talked, smiled, gone out of our way for them. We need to become a SHERO! A warrior for Christ. A person who holds a another’s hand while going thru chemo. A person who takes food if someone had a baby, been ill or had a death in the family. A SHERO is one who listens, without judgment. A SHERO is one who leaves words of comfort on an answering machine of a person who is going through a rough time. A SHERO is one who sends a card or email to brighten another’s day. Even though SHERO is female: this applies to men who are heroes as well. Become a hero for God!

One more thought in conclusion. Have you ever thought that when we are hurting, that we should reach out to someone who we trust? We have to let others know in order for them to be able to be a SHERO for us. I have always said that I don’t know how to pray for someone unless they reach out to me. We need to get out of the comfort zone of keeping to ourselves and not sharing. We must reach out to a friend and not be so proud that we don’t want others to know we are struggling with a trial, a feeling, an illness or any other thing.

In conclusion, I will quote from the same article that I did above. “We’ve got to keep our own focus firmly on the God who loves us and strengthens us and protects us and defends us. We’ve got to tune out the lies of the enemy and tune in to the Spirit of Truth.  Then we take turns “standing in the gap” on behalf of our friends and family, our brothers and sisters in Christ. While they are doing the work they have to do in their own hearts and lives (in a sense rebuilding the wall)-or while they’re gathering the courage, maybe even regrouping after a tough battle-we pray for them, encourage them, affirm them, support them, shield them. In a spiritual sense, we’re standing between them and the enemy of their souls. The good news is that though the battle rages on, the winner has already been declared. The victory is ours in Christ Jesus! “for God has not given us a spirit of fear but of power and of love and of a sound mind.” (2 Timothy 1:7)

So, the next time you see someone in need physically or spiritually, get out of your comfort zone and Stand in the Gap for them. What an amazing opportunity God has given us of STANDING IN THE GAP for each other!

Till next time!                                     Keela

FOOTPRINTS

Seeing the footprints in the snow, put a chill through my bones. The footprints were not large but small. It could have been a dog, cat, racoon or even a skunk. Some animal had been right under my living room window, where I had been sitting, leaving behind footprints.

While eating supper with some friends, I was telling a story about my deceased husband and realized none of them had ever met him.  They had never been a part of the many aspects of his life.  He had been an elder, deacon, preacher, mailman & was respected as a Boy Scout leader and trainer.  The over 500 friends and family that came to his funeral was evidence that he had touched so many lives!  But a new generation had come into the church as adults and they did not know the man who was everything to me, who had been a part of my life for over 36 years! Were there footprints that he had left behind?

There is a popular Christian song that points to the fact that we should not leave a legacy behind when we die. That we, our name, should not be remembered but that Jesus should be who is remembered. I agree with the concept. We are to be the light into this dark world of sin proclaiming God’s love and not be trying to make a name for ourselves. But I also look at the Bible and all the characters God has given us, who we do remember their names: Moses-Noah-David-Jezebel-Judas. The first three names we remember as warriors for the Lord. The last two we think about the evil they did. Have you ever heard of a baby being named Jezebel or Judas? There are many characters of the Bible who have left amazing footprints that we should try to step into them and serve the Lord. But then there are several footprints that we do not want to follow because they were evil.

I have started thinking, the older I get, about myself and if I will leave a legacy to future generations!  Would people remember me or would I just become a faraway shadow with a headstone. There are parts of our physical bodies which live through the generations.  My grandfather had the most beautiful light blue eyes that just sparkled.  He has been gone now for many years, but when I look at my oldest son, I see my grandfather reflecting back through his sparkling blue eyes! My son has taken on those blue eyes down through the generations.  Who knows maybe one of these days one of my sons’ grandchildren or great-grandchildren will see him reflecting back through one of their beautiful eyes!  It makes us feel like we have not lost those who have gone on before us because they are reflected in our loved ones.  But is that really important?  Is it only about the physical or is it also about our spirituality reflecting to future generations? Are future generations, a hundred years from now, going to remember our names and that we had served the Lord? The scriptures are full of what we are to do for future generations to help them know and remember the Lord and remember our examples of faithfulness.  Psalm 102:18 says, talking about God’s law, “This will be written for the generations to come, that a people yet to be created may praise the Lord.”

     Psalm 76:1-4 reads: “Give ear, O my people, to my law; Incline your ears to the words of my mouth.  I will open my words in a parable, I will utter dark sayings of old, which we have heard and known, and our fathers have told us.  We will not hide them from our children, telling to the generation to come the praises of the Lord, and His strength and His wonderful works that He has done.”  These verses tell me that we are to be vocal about our love for the Lord.  Do my children and grandchildren see the Lord living in me or do I not practice what I preach?  Does my daily life reflect the light of the one and only God?  Does my speech show a person who does not like the bad jokes or the bad language spoken around me at work or on the TV?  We are not to hide who we truly are, but show our true selves to our children, grandchildren, great-grandchildren.  We must proclaim the Lord and His goodness to our family, so when our footprints disappear, God will be remembered and that He lived in and through us. 

       Let’s look at another scripture.  Judges 2:10 reads: “When all that generation had been gathered to their fathers, another generation arose after them who did not know the Lord nor the work which He had done for Israel.”  This is talking about after Joshua died.  Joshua had been a grand leader, known throughout Israel.  The book of Joshua has a very quoted verse.  “As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.”  What had gone wrong that future generations did not know Joshua and were not serving the Lord?  How could they forget what Joshua had done as a leader or how he had led his life?  Somewhere down the family chain, the Lord had not been talked about.  God had not become evident by the way they lived their lives.  God had been forgotten and the world had taken His place in their lives.  During Bible times, they did not have the written scripture so easily accessible to them as we do.  They only had word of mouth to proclaim God to their children and future generations.  We are so blessed to have the written word to help us visualize and know the great men and women who have gone before us. We can keep God “alive” through reading the scriptures to the next generation and through living our lives as a light to the world.  We can be like how Abel in Hebrews 11:4 is described. That scripture tells us that “though being dead, still speaks.”  Themen and women of the past are reminding us of their dedication for the Lord, through reading scripture and talking about past generations to those in the present and those yet to be born.

My mother passed away three years ago.  She lived her life loving her family and the Lord.  She had so many traditions, at the holidays, that my family has tried to keep going, but it is not really the same. So, we also have started new traditions. Traditions are a way of honoring the loved ones who have gone before us; a way to be reminded of their love for each of us still here on earth. Will those old traditions and the new ones I have started, be like footprints on future generations in their hearts?  My older grandchildren will have so many memories with their great-grandmother, my mother.  But my smaller grandchildren will not really remember her except through pictures.  How will her legacy live on?  The key is that we will talk about her and tell stories to future generations about her.  But shouldn’t this be the same with God? We need to tell the stories from the Bible of those men and women who lived for the Lord, so that future generations will know Him.

Is it important that people in the future know me, my husband or my mother?  Should it make me sad that this or future generations have never met my husband, or my mother?  What will people remember when I die?  Will they remember how I died?  What I owned materially or what job I worked?  Or will I be remembered by how I lived my life, my faith.  The importance is that God is alive for future generations through our examples, our faith and our talking about Him. Psalm 78:2-4 say “I will open my mouth in a parable, I will utter dark sayings of old, which we have heard and known, and our fathers have told us. We will not hide them from our children, telling to the generation to come the praises of the Lord. And His strength and His wonderful works that He has done.”   We need to be teaching our children, our grandchildren, our great-grandchildren about God and His greatness. Maybe when one of them are surrounded by evil, one of our words, echoing through the winds of time, can be heard and they will turn to God for their strength and answers instead of to drugs, alcohol or any of the other evil that the world tries to make us believe is the answer. Have we shown our family that the one true answer is to surround yourself with Godly people and the words from past generations that tell us to love and serve only God, not the things of this world?  My purposes on this earth is not to make a name for myself but to proclaim God’s name so future generations will know Him.  It is all about God, not us!  God’s legacy is important, not mine! But our footprints need to be in the hearts of those we love and come in contact with everyday so that when we die, they will remember that we loved and served the Lord.

When my husband died, I went ahead and got a headstone that is for both of us. My daughter reminded me of a Bible verse, that I put on the stone, from 1 Thessalonians 4:13-14. “But I do not want you to be ignorant, brethren, concerning those who have fallen asleep, lest you sorrow as others who have no hope. For if we believe Jesus died and rose again, even so God will bring with Him those who sleep in Jesus.”   In the future, when someone bends down to read my old, wind-blown stone, what are they going to realize? Will they remember my name, the person I was to my friends and family? No, but they will read that scripture and know that my husband and I loved the Lord. The verse will speak through years to come, to future generations, giving hope that there is something after this life. That there is hope for their future, if they serve the Lord and we will be reunited with our loved ones in heaven! That verse is a footprint for generations to come.

Ask yourself, what am I doing in my life right now to leave a legacy about God to future generations!  It is not too late. You can start right now!  Future generations’ eternity depends on it! Are you leaving footprints behind?

                      Till next time!          Keela