Anyone who knows me, realizes that I am all about Hallmark channel movies love stories & mysteries. They usually all have the same type of ending but it is so much fun to see how the characters get to that point. There was a particular 2018, based on a true story, movie called “A Godwink Christmas,” that I watched and loved this last Christmas. The character was minding her own business traveling and all of a sudden, a whole set of events led to a different outcome than she was focused on. Some were good but there were also some very difficult things that happened to her.
The movie starts out with the definition of Godwink: “an event or personal experience often identified as coincidence, so astonishing that it is seen as a sign of divine intervention, especially when perceived as the answer to a prayer.” Wow, have you ever had times in your life when things have not gone as you expected and thru a series of events, your life ended up being for the best for you and your future? I have had several, but will share one with you today.
When my husband and I lost our home to foreclosure, my husband felt like all we could afford was a trailer. There are several nice areas in our home town that house trailers. Now, I want to say here, I have nothing against living in a trailer or the people who live in trailers. But I did not feel this was the best option for us as most of them have steps and my husband was not able to maneuver steps. I just did not feel that was the right option for us. But anyway, he started looking up trailers for sale in our price range. He knew I had always dreamed of living by a lake or some type of body of water and he found one by a little pond in a nice trailer park. We went and looked at it, even had my parents come up and look at it. The living room had a bay window where I could “see” our Christmas tree sitting. One of the bedrooms floor was a bit “soft” but I knew my dad could fix anything and he could figure out something. I started getting excited! My husband called to make an offer on it only to find out it had been sold that morning to someone else. I was discouraged but my husband kept looking and found another one, in the same area and if you looked out one of the bedroom windows just right you could still see the pond. We went and looked at it. It had a fireplace in the living room and I started trying to “picture” us living there. It sat on a corner lot and had a ramp to get into the door. We decided, when we got home, to call the person who had it up for sale and make an offer. We went out the door opposite of the road and were walking around the side of the yard next to the road. We were headed to our car and a car stopped and a lady rolled down her window. She asked us if we were going to put an offer on this trailer. We told her yes and what she did and said next is what I consider a Godwink moment from my life. She said she was from out of town and she and her friend were there to visit a relative that lived in this park. She said she was the original owner of this trailer that had been moved to this lot about twenty years before. She said the man who was selling this trailer was a swindler and don’t believe anything he said. She said they always had trouble with the roof leaking, no matter how many times they had fixed it. Since the trailer did not have any other trailers behind it and it also sat on a hill facing the north, that every winter the pipes froze and burst causing them to spend a lot of money to repair them every year! She rolled up her window and drove away. My husband and I just stood there in disbelief, not saying a word, watching her drive away from us. We left never speaking about what had just happened and he immediately started looking at duplexes to rent. The one we found was really nice and on a corner lot so our grandkids could come over and run around in the yard. And the best part was, it had no stairs or steps to get in or out of the duplex. That is where we lived until my husband’s death about three years later.
What are the odds of all that happening to lead to what ended up being the best for our future? Originally loosing our home to foreclosure was good, even though I felt so defeated and sad at the time. After my husband’s death, I did not have to make costly repairs and go through the tedious process of selling it. Our yard was big there and when I was young, I could mow and take care of a big yard, but getting older I would not have been able to care for it. The same with a trailer. My kids and I would have had to fix it up and wait for it to sell before I could move. Renting a duplex, I was released from the contract. My kids could see that I needed to leave that duplex where so many sad things had happened. They started looking for me a home to buy, weeding out the ones that they knew were not good for me or I would not like. They settled on about four homes that were in the right price range. Each one of them decided on the one that they thought I would choose. But they agreed to not tell each other which one until I had made my decision. I went with them to see the ones they had chosen. As soon as I walked into my present home, I felt at home. I did not have to take care of a big yard or worry about snow removal. I felt protected by my husband somehow. I felt like he would have been so happy that I found such a nice, safe home. The funny thing is, this was the one each one of my kids had thought I would like!
In the Hallmark movie, the main characters aunt, told her several things I want to share with you and some thoughts that came to my mind when I think of Godwink moments. She said sometimes we just have to take a leap of faith when the difficult times come (like losing my home to foreclosure, disappointments with giving bid on trailer and finally my husband’s death) or the big decisions that we don’t know what to do (like finding just the right home for me to move to after his death.) When difficult times come or difficult decisions have to be made, we have to see things in a different light-a different mindset. We need to reach up to God in prayer from the very beginning when we have something major happening in our lives. God does not speak to us out loud like He did to old testament characters like Moses from a burning bush or when he received the ten commandments. (Exodus 3 & Exodus 20) But God “winks” at us in our everyday happenings. We read the Bible and have it so embedding within our hearts when troubling times-decisions have to be made, that we can push away all the negativity and weed through the confusion. God gets our attention when we don’t understand why things are happening to us or when things don’t happen the way we think they should. God leads us to the right path-the path He has for our lives-the path that is the best one. The path we need to take in order to fulfill His purposes for us!
Look back at your life and think how things have happened just in the right order, at the right time-the right moment (even though at the time it did not feel like it), but it was actually for the ultimate good for your life.
Psalm 18:28-30 reads “For You will light my lamp; the Lord my God will enlighten my darkness. For by You I can run against a troop, by my God I can leap over a wall. As for God, His way is perfect; the word of the Lord is proven; He is a shield to all who trust in Him.”
When your life does not go as you think it should or have planned, consider that God is “winking” at you and He is in control for your ultimate good. And next Christmas, look up “A Godwink Christmas.” You will be glad you did!
Till next time! Keela