JUBAL’S MUSIC

JUBAL’S MUSIC

Genesis 4:21 reads “His brother’s name was Jubal. He was the father of all those who play the harp and flute.”

Have you ever heard of Jubal? His father was Lamech. (This is not the same Lamech mentioned in Genesis 5, 1 Chronicles 1 and in genealogies to Christ in Luke 3. This Lamech practiced polygamy and boasted about murder.) Jubal had a brother named Jabal. (When I saw that, I laughed and thought of my one first cousin (yes, I only had one) whose name was Keena. When my grandmother would call for one of us, we both went. Now as a grandmother whose first four older grandkids names start with an A, I understand the confusion my poor grandmother had.) Jubal is in the genealogy of the family of Cain, who killed his brother, Abel. Jubal’s genealogy was marked by violence.

Jubal was never mentioned again in scripture. Just mentioned that he existed, created and used the talents he had been given. Most of Scripture is about quiet lives, ordinary callings and people who fulfilled their God guided purpose, in the life season they were in.

Maybe, Jubal lived in a family who thought that nothing good could come from Cain’s lineage. The world did not look anything like the garden of Eden, where it had all started. But here was Jubal, who created and picked up an instrument and made music with it.

We don’t have any idea if he struggled with the weight of his genealogy. There is a lot we don’t know about this man, but we know that he did not feel insignificant, because of his past family’s history. He created, picked up a harp and flute and did what he could. He didn’t wait for perfect conditions in his life to use his gifts. He didn’t let his families past hold him back. He didn’t put his calling on hold waiting until everything made sense. He just started. Took step 1. Some might say they will retire before they concentrate on working for the Lord. Is there a certainty that they will live until retirement age?

We can’t see the entire picture of our lives, but we need to get busy and do what we can now. Jubal’s example to us is to be faithful in the present, in the time that is right in front of us. Jubal’s smaller story is just mentioned quickly in the larger story of Cain killing Abel. God doesn’t ask us to see our whole story on this earth, before we obey Him. God just wants us to actively trust Him and serve Him today.

God’s timing is not like our timing. God moves in ways that don’t make sense to us. Proverbs 3:5-6 reads “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not to your own understanding. But in all your ways acknowledge Him and He will direct your paths.” He uses the different seasons in our lives to prepare us for our future. Those are not wasted seasons but times for us to grow deep in our faith to God.

Our world today shows us we only matter, if we are in the spotlight. But God tells us we do matter and are valuable, in the every day happenings. We are all loved and significant in God’s eyes. Luke 12:7 reads “…the very hairs of your head are all numbered.” Psalm 56:8 reads “You number my wanderings; put my tears into Your bottle…”  

Jubal became the father of music. Think of David who played the harp and soothed king Saul’s soul. (1 Samuel 16:23) Jubal started music that had beautiful effects for the future. His work did not change the world. His gifts didn’t show the path to our Savior Christ. But for those who love to play instruments and love music, he did create something very important.

We don’t have to see what God is using us for in this life. The point is we just need to have complete trust in Him in the waiting and serve Him today. Since I am older now, I can see that God has used my different seasons of life for a specific purpose at that time and for a reason for my future. We need to use what we have in each stage of our lives to serve the Lord and fulfill our purpose. We might not think our life is of any significance or what we are doing of any consequence. But God has a mission for you, even though you can’t see it. We don’t have to understand. We just have to have faith that God’s timing is perfect and for our good. We just have to keep on putting one foot in front of the other, trusting God that He is with us and helping us along our path. Doing the best that we can!

As far as I can find, Jubal is never mentioned again. We don’t know how long he lived-what type of person he was-if he had any children-nothing else. But we do know that he created music through the harp and the flute. (You might turn to this passage and look at his brother and half-brothers. They were also very talented like Jubal was. You might also notice that these verses name their mother’s names and sister by name. Something very rare at this time in Bible history to list women’s names. Just some things I noticed and for you to think about.)

The point of this blog, is for us to see that God counts us important, even when we don’t think we are of any significance. We can’t see our future and what it contains. God may be using this season in our lives to prepare us for God’s purpose for us in the future. Maybe, our lives have several purposes. We don’t know for sure, but we have to trust and continue to have faith: in God’s timing-in our waiting-in our difficult circumstances-in what we think are unanswered prayers-in the mundane every day happenings. Whatever age you are now, use it for service to God and keep the faith that your future holds the unseen joy of a home with God.

We are not insignificant to God. God created Jubal, who had a talent to create music! Jubal is only mentioned in two sentences in the Bible. But look at what he accomplished. We need to trust God in the waiting. Our purpose may feel unclear and our impact seems so small and insignificant. We fit into God’s plans, even when we don’t see it or realize it. We serve Him in the quiet, simple moments of every day.

Had you ever noticed before, the name of Jubal and that he was the father of music? I sure hadn’t. But we sure have now!

Till next time!

                                            Keela

THE HATS OF GRIEF

THE HATS OF GRIEF

There are many hats of grief. So many different reasons for grieving. Our congregation has many “sizes, shapes and styles” right now. We have people who are fighting against the hard word of cancer. We have a precious saint who goes to dialysis three times a week, waiting for a transplant. We have a woman grieving the loss of her husband. Me, grieving the loss of my dad, who passed away a couple of months ago. One member, the loss of a precious pet. One family who is grieving the loss of the husband’s job and the many bills piling up and no fathomable way to pay them. Many who have lost their ability to, go even one day, without pain. Several who have become “prisoners” in their home because of age. Many who are still grieving the loss of a child. Others are going through the grief of depression. Some, because of storms, property is lost. Another is grieving because of bullying. One of my personal griefs today is for, my daughter, Navy son-in-law and family, who lost everything they owned in a semi-moving truck fire, as it was moving them to the complete other side of the U.S. (From Virginia to the state of Washington.) They arrived safely, but only with what their two cars could hold and what was on their backs. She is trying to set up their new home and every day brings another precious treasure that has been lost in the ashes. Right now, she is making lists and lists of all that was on that truck, for the insurance. It is reliving that fire every day! She is only spending an hour a day, because it is so painful to spend more than that.  (I want to say here, thank you for all of you who have helped them. They will be ok. Their faith in God is strong! But please keep them in your prayers!)

Even though it has been almost 17 years since I lost my husband, at times it seems like yesterday. Other times a lifetime ago. Today, while writing this, I am reminded he would have turned 75 today. The quote, below, I read on the ‘We Are Widow Warriors’ post, on Facebook. If you are experiencing the fact of losing your husband, I recommend it highly.  Below is a quote from it that made so much sense and is so true. If you are experiencing ANY type of grief, it will help you to understand all the emotions that are running through your heart right now. (I want to point out that it is ok to be feeling these emotions.)

“Grief has many physical symptoms. What we feel in our heart, our body feels too. You are not imaging it.

  • Exhaustion-Deep, overwhelming tiredness that rest doesn’t always fix.
  • Sleep Problems-Trouble falling asleep or staying asleep, or sleeping too much.
  • Headaches-Tension and stress can cause frequent or lasting headaches.
  • Body Aches-Grief can show up as unexplained pain.
  • Stomach Issues-Nausea, loss of appetite, butterflies, or a heavy feeling.
  • Weakened Immune System-You may get sick more easily.
  • Chest Tightness-That heavy, aching feeling in your chest.
  • Shortness of Breath-Grief can take your breath away.
  • Heart Palpitations-Your heart may race for no clear reason.
  • Brain Fog-Trouble concentrating, remembering, or making decisions.

Your body is not weak. It is carrying a very heavy load. Be gentle with yourself. You are doing the best you can.”

 Those of us who are grieving for ANY cause, are on a new journey we have never been on before. Our lives are changed forever. Grief isn’t just missing what was. It’s learning to live without what will never be. We need God given courage to keep on taking one foot in front of the other. Below are some verses from the Bible that help us remember that God is right by our side and helping us through the pain and loss.

Joshua 1:9 “…Be strong and of good courage; do not be afraid, nor be dismayed, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go.”

Deuteronomy 31:6 “Be strong and of good courage, do not fear nor be afraid of them; for the Lord your God, He is the One who goes with you. He will not leave you nor forsake you.”

Isaiah 41:10 “Fear not, for I am with you, be not dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you, yes, I will help you. I will uphold you with My righteous right hand.”

Psalm 27:1 “The Lord is my light and my salvation, whom shall I fear? The Lord is the strength of my life; of whom shall I be afraid?” and verses 13-14 “I would have lost heart unless I believed in the goodness of the Lord in the land of the living. Wait on the Lord, be of good courage, and He shall strengthen your heart; wait, I say, on the Lord!”

Psalm 34:17-18 “The righteous cry out, and the Lord hears, and delivers them out of all their troubles. The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves such as have a contrite spirit.”

There are so many passages in the Old and New Testaments to give us assurance that God is by our side, helping us walk and sometimes crawl, through the devastations of this life. Have faith in God even when it feels so hard, because the answers to your prayers are no! When you don’t understand why these things happen, keep your hope in God’s promises. When we ask why, reach out in trust to God. When we feel like giving up and just want to fall into the world and its seemingly easy answers to the pain, keep your faith in God! God has not changed. He has been with us in the past, present and will be in the future!

Look up the lives of Shadrach, Meshach and Abednego in Daniel 3. They still had to go through the intense fire, but yet God was with them in it. God has never promised us “an easy ride” on this earth! We will have struggles on this earth. When we go through these trials, we see our faith and trust in God actually making us stronger-giving us peace-helping us to breathe through the struggle.

Hang in there, especially if your grief is fresh and raw. Sometimes, all we can do is to take one step at a time. But remember, God is the only way to forge ahead into the future. John 16:33 reads “…in Me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation; but be of good cheer, I have overcome the world.”  

‘At my lowest, God is my hope. At my darkest, God is my light. At my weakest, God is my strength. At my saddest, God is my comforter.’ -Kelly’s Treehouse-

Grief is a personal journey. It doesn’t have to be like any one else’s or in the same time frame. Hang on! The only way to get through each step is to lean on God and His promises! It is normal to isolate and not reach out. I have wanted to stay “in my bubble.” I understand! That is ok. But, don’t stay there. Try to reach out to someone who will listen, keep your words to themselves and help you through the rawness. There are many types of Christian grief groups out there. There is nothing wrong with reaching out to them. But also, remember, reach out to God for His help. Dust off your Bible and read how God consoles the grieving.

 I will leave you with the verse I turn to, for help, when I go through grief or when someone reaches out to me, in their pain.                            

 2 Corinthians 1:3-4

“Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our tribulation, that we may be able to comfort those who are in any trouble, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God.”

Grief never totally goes away. But does become softer.  Be graceful to yourself to let yourself grieve, in your own way. Never give up! You will find happiness in this life again. Keep the joy of the Lord in your heart. Turn to God. With trust, faith, hope and love in the Lord, you can walk through the grief journey you are on. May God bless you on your journey of the “different hats of grief!”

Till next time!

                                       Keela